This exercise is designed to help participants learn to
listen to others by asking them to try and assimilate the
views of others during a discussion.
The leader chooses a subject which is likely to produce
a number of viewpoints among the participants. At the start
of the discussion the leader poses the problem. For example,
he or she might give two sides of an issue in the Arab-Israel
conflict or religious/secular issue.
The leader asks participants to
list initial reactions and first points of view on paper.
The leader then allows for a discussion bringing out points
of disagreement and having participants explain their points
of view.
The leader should stresses that
everyone should pay particular attention to, and note down
points of view which are different from their own, by taking
notes and trying to understand the other’s position.
Once all have had the chance to
express their opinions, the leader closes the discussion
by saying:
“We are now going to try an
experiment. While you may all feel strongly about your
views, I’d like to ask you now to look at your notes
about the alternative points of view.
Do you understand those views?
Take a minute to think about the points expressed
by others.”
After a few minutes the leader asks
the group to continue the discussion, this time defending
the opinion most unlike his/her own. The discussion, if
possible, should continue for about ten minutes, or until
each member has a chance to defend a new point of view.
Review
The activity can be summed up with
a discussion of the following points:
- Were you able to defend another’s position convincingly?
Why, or why not?
- During the first part of the discussion did you truly
listen openly to the points of others, or were you constantly
defending and gaining “ammunition” for your point of view?
- Is it possible for people of vastly different views
to engage in open, honest communication? Why, or why not?
- Were all or some of your views changed as a result of
this exercise?
As a follow-up to this activity,
the group might be reconvened at a later date to have a
discussion of the original issue.
- Are people more willing to listen
to each other?
- Is communication greater?