English Versions Of The Texts For Orthodox And Conservative
Texts:
THIS Ketubah witnesses before God and all those present
that on this ___day of the week, the ___day of the month of___in the year___corresponding
to the ___ day of ___in the city of___the Holy Covenant of Marriage was
entered into between the Groom___son of ___and the Bride___daughter of___.
Duly conscious of the sacred obligations of marriage, the Groom made the
following declaration to his bride: "Be consecrated unto me as my
wife according to the laws and traditi ons of Moses and the people Israel.
I will love, honor and cherish you; I will protect and support you, and
I will faithfully care for your needs, as prescribed by Jewish law and
tradition." In accepting the ring as a token of the Groom's love
and commitment, the bride agreed to become his wife, and to participate
with him in establishing a home in love and harmony, peace and companionship.
This Covenant of Marriage has been signed and witnessed according to the
laws and traditions that began with Abraham and Sarah were conveyed through
Moses and affirmed through the people Israel.
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Egalitarian Text 1
ON the___day of the week, the___day of the month of___corresponding
to____here at____the Groom___son of ___said to the bride: "Be my
wife according to the faith of Israel". And the Bride ___daughter
of ___said to the Groom "Be my husband according to the faith of
Israel."
I betroth you to me forever; I betroth you to me in righteousness and
justice, in love and compassion; I betroth you to me in everlasting faithfulness.
In the spirit of Jewish tradition I will be your loving friend, as you
are mine. Set me as a seal upon your heart, like the seal upon your hand,
for love is stronger than death, it is the flame of God. And I will cherish
you, honor you, uphold and sustain you in all truth and sincerity. I will
respect you and the Divine image within you. Therefore have I said to
you: by this ring be sanctified to me, according to the faith of Israel.
ALL THIS IS SPOKEN AND DONE.
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Egalitarian Text 2
On the ___ day of the week, the___day of the month of___in
the year___corresponding to the ___day of the month of____ here in ___the
Groom son of___said to the bride "With this ring you are consecrated
unto me as my wife according to the tradition of Moses and the Jewish
people. I shall treasure you, nourish you, support you and respect you
as Jewish men have devoted themselves to their wives with integrity."
The Bride___daughter of___said to the Groom: "With this ring you
are consecrated unto me as my husband according to the tradition of Moses
and the Jewish people. I shall treasure you, nourish you, support you
and respect you as Jewish women have devoted themselves to their husbands
with integrity." We promise to try to be ever open to one another
while cherishing each other's uniqueness; to comfort and challenge each
other through life's sorrow and joy; to share our intuition and insight
with one another. We also pledge to establish a home open to the spiritual
potential in all life. A home wherein the flow of the seasons and the
passages of life are celebrated through the symbols of our Jewish heritage.
A home filled with reverence for learning, loving and generosity. A home
wherein ancient melody, candles and wine sanctify the table. A home joined
ever more closely to the community of Israel. This marriage has been authorized
also by the civil authorities of___. IT IS VALID AND BINDING.
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Egalitarian Text 3
On the ___day of the week, the___day of the month of___in
the year___corresponding to the ___day of____in the year___here in____
The Groom ___son of___and___promised the Bride___"You are my wife
according to the tradition of Moses and Israel. I shall cherish you and
honor you as is customary among the sons of Israel who have cherished
and honored their wives in faithfulness and in integrity." The Bride___daughter
of ___and___promised the Groom "You are my husband according to the
tradition of Moses and Israel. I shall cherish you and honor you as is
customary among the daughters of Israel who have cherished and honored
their husbands in faithfulness and in integrity."
The Groom and Bride have also promised each other to strive throughout
their lives together to achieve an openness, which will enable them to
share their thoughts, their feelings and their experiences. To be sensitive
at all times to each other's needs; to attain mutual intellectual, emotional,
physical and spiritual fulfillment; to work for the perpetuation of Judaism
and of the Jewish people in their home, in their family life and in their
communal endeavors. This marriage has been authorized also by the civil
authorities of___. IT IS VALID AND BINDING
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Wisdom and Reverence
This ketubah witnesses before God and all those present
that on the___day of the week, the ___ of the month of ___ in the year
57__, corresponding to the ___ day of ___ 19__, the holy covenant of marriage
was entered into at___ between the bride____daughter of___ and ___ and
the bridegroom___, son of ___ and ___. And both declared: Affirming our
people's covenant with God may we be consecrated to each other by this
ring. Let our lives be intertwined forever. Let our hearts be united in
faith and in hope. Let our home be rich with wisdom and reverence. Limitless
is my love for you and my devotion without end. I take you to be mine
in love and in tenderness. I take you to be mine in faithfulness. May
our hearts beat as one in days of joy as of trouble. May our life together
be illumined by our people's heritage. May our home be built on Torah
and loving-kindness. May my love for you last forever. This covenant of
marriage has been signed and sealed according to the laws and traditions
that began with Abraham and Sarah and continued through Moses and the
people Israel.
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Kiddushin
On the ___day of the week, the ___day of the month ___ in
the year 57__, corresponding to the secular date___ in the city of ___,
there came before us, the undersigned witnesses, the Groom,___ son of
___ and ___ and the Bride___ daughter of ___ and ___. The groom made the
following declaration: "Be sanctified to me as my wife according
to the traditions of Moses and Israel, and I will love, honor and respect
you. I will provide for you and sustain you as is proper for a Jewish
husband to do for his wife." And the bride accepted his words. The
bride made the following declaration: "Be sanctified to me as my
husband according to the traditions of Moses and Israel, and I will love,
honor and respect you. I will provide for you and sustain you as is proper
for a Jewish wife to do for her husband." And the groom accepted
her words. The bride and groom hereby enter into the sacred covenant of
marriage - Kiddushin- and agree to establish a Jewish home together according
to the traditions of our people. In expression of their acceptance of
this ketubah, the groom ___ and the bride ___ have affixed their signatures
to this document in the presence of the witnesses’ undersigned in
accordance with the traditions of Judaism. And everything herein is valid
and proper. May there be peace in their home, confidence and serenity
in their hearts.
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Faithfulness and Integrity
On the ___day of the week, the ___day of ___ five thousand
seven hundred___ since the creation of the world as we reckon time in
___, the bride___daughter of ___ and ___, promised the groom ___ son of___
and ___: You are my husband according to the tradition of Moses and Israel.
I shall cherish you and honor you, as it is customary among the daughters
of Israel who have cherished and honored their husbands in faithfulness
and integrity. The groom ___son of ___ and ___ promised the bride ___:
You are my wife according to the tradition of Moses and Israel. I shall
cherish you and honor you as it is customary among the sons of Israel
who have cherished and honored their wives in faithfulness and integrity.
The groom and bride have also promised each other to strive throughout
their lives together to achieve an openness, which will enable them to
share their thoughts, their feelings and their experiences. To be sensitive
at all times to each others needs, to attain mutual intellectual, emotional,
physical, and spiritual fulfillment, to work for the perpetuation of Judaism
and of the Jewish people in their home, in their family life, and in their
communal endeavors. This marriage has been authorized also by the civil
authorities of ___. It is valid and binding.
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Equal Partners
This ketubah witnesses before God and all those present
that on the __ day of the week the ___ of the month of ___ in the year
57__, corresponding to the ___day of ___ 19__ the holy covenant of marriage
was entered into at ___ between the bride___ daughter of __ and __and
the bridegroom___son of ___ and ___. And both declared: According to the
traditions of Moses and the people Israel, we are consecrated unto each
other. We desire our lives to be intertwined forever and for our love
to be eternal. We shall treasure, respect and honor each other. We shall
support each other in achieving intellectual, emotional and spiritual
fulfillment. We promise to be full and equal partners in life and to do
everything within our power to permit each of us to become the persons
we are yet to be. May we create a home that
is rich with wisdom and caring, built on Torah and acts of loving kindness,
a home filled with love, learning and generosity. May we celebrate the
flow of the seasons and the passages of life with joy and reverence. May
our lives together by illuminated by our people's heritage. From this
day forward we are as one. Accordingly, we enter into this covenant of
love, companionship, peace and friendship.
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