Cooperation Between The Jewish Agency, Ezra Youth Movement, and Chabad in Belarus
THERE WAS NEITHER BRIDE NOR GROOM, BUT FOUR COUPLES READY FOR A JEWISH WEDDING SHOWED UP
The ring was made of aluminum foil; the bridegroom did not recite "you are consecrated to me" under the marriage canopy, and the couple did not spend time alone to seal the marriage bond after the ceremony. Other than that, the wedding that took place last week in the Belarussian city of Gomel was "the real thing"-- from the traditional wedding canopy to the klezmer music to the circles of young men and women dancing around the "happy couple" to the tables laden with delicacies – something that could have
been lifted straight out of Shalom Aleichem!
The idea for the model wedding was conceived by two young women from Ezra, who were sent by the Jewish Agency for two months to work with the local community. In January, when Efrat Goldstein and Odelia Hajaj arrived in Gomel – once a thriving Jewish city - they quickly set out to initiate activities to augment local programs. In addition to helping the local Ezra branch of about 40 youngsters, they conducted "experiential" programs in the Jewish Agency ulpanim and ran Kabbalat Shabbat services at "Chese
d" –the JDC sponsored senior citizens center. They taught Hebrew at the Jewish government-run day school (grades one to four) and Sunday school. Local youngsters were able to enjoy an Israeli-style Purim fair complete with booths, contests, and prizes for the best disguises!
But their most dramatic feat was undoubtedly the traditional Jewish wedding they staged this past Sunday -- and the city hadn’t witnessed anything like it in over eighty years! "There are no Jewish weddings in Gomel," said Odelia. "They had no idea of how Jews get married."
Since they couldn’t locate, on such short notice, a couple planning to get married, the girls decided to stage a real Jewish wedding. They were helped enormously by the Chabad movement. Two young men and four young women came all the way from St. Petersburg – a 19-hour trip under ordinary circumstances -- to organize the wedding. However, since they were needed to transport the freshly prepared wedding delicacies cooked Saturday night by Chabad chefs in Minsk, they set out Thursday, and spent Shabbat in
Minsk. Chabad also provided the chupah, the traditional wedding canopy.
When they heard about the plans, community members were initially skeptical. "What kind of a wedding is this?" one young man queried. However, within a short time, the "wedding" became the "hottest item" in Gomel. One-hundred-fifty invitations were initially distributed, for a token fee, among the various sectors of the community. The telephone never stopped ringing at the girls’ apartment as requests for invitations poured in. "If there were room we could have had 500 people at the wedding," says Ode
lia.
In the end, over 215 people managed to squeeze into the largest facility available in Gomel - the dining room in a factory. The crowd sang and danced into the wee hours of the night to tapes of klezmer music, Carlebach songs, and traditional Israeli melodies. The wedding ended with a rousing rendition of Hatikvah.
As the plans for the "wedding" got underway, four engaged couples approached Odelia and Efrat and asked them to help arrange real Jewish weddings.
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A GUIDE TO JEWISH LOS ANGELES
Have you just moved to Los Angeles? Travel there frequently on business? Maybe you are just passing through?
If so, do you need a synagogue, a Jewish day school or kosher food? Whatever your requirements, you’ll find information easily in "A Guide to the Los Angeles Jewish Community" published by the Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles. It lists just about everything Jewish in Los Angeles, including names, addresses, phone numbers and even e-mail addresses of the myriad Jewish agencies, organizations, programs, synagogues, etc.
The updated guide included listings of organizations, agencies, synagogues, teen groups, camps, nursery schools, supplemental religious and day schools. The new edition even adds listings of singles and young adult programs, mikvaot (Jewish ritual baths), cemeteries and mortuaries, kosher food and Judaica shops.
The free 140 page Guide is designed to help all members of the community locate the broad spectrum of Jewish resources throughout greater Los Angeles. It is expected to be especially useful to people who have recently moved to the area, and those who come to Los Angeles on business.
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GUACAMOLE DIP
California is known for its big and beautiful avocados. An avocado is ripe when it yields to gentle pressure.
2 ripe avocados
1/4 cup finely minced onion
2 tablespoons lemon juice
2 tablespoons of diced green chili peppers (optional)
1/2 tablespoon of salt
1/4 cup chopped parsley
1/2 teaspoon of olive oil
Peel and mash avocados with fork, crushing against sides of bowl. Combine with other ingredients except parsley. Place in serving bowl, using parsley as garnish. Serve with corn or tortilla chips, crackers, or use to fill tomato shells for individual servings. Makes about 2 cups.
Bon appetit - B'teavon!
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