FAMILY SECRETS OUT OF SUITCASE
SCHOOL AT FRANKEL CENTER CELEBRATES FAMILY DAY IN NOVEL WAY: PARENTS OF STUDENTS PLACED IN SUITCASE MOMENTOUS FAMILY ARTICLES THAT THEY TALKED ABOUT WHEN THEY MET
On Yom Hamishpacha (Family Day) celebrated last week in Israel, Ilan Rubin, JAFI Secretary-General, and his wife, Cynthia, visited their daughter's sixth grade class along with other parents, for a very special event.
As part of the "VeShinantam Le'Vanecha" Program, run by the Frankel Center for Jewish Family Education , and funded by the Jewish Agency, each child had been requested to bring in for Yom Hamishpacha one item that has special significance for his family. All the items werel collected in a half-opened suitcase at the front of the class. The teacher pulled out items at random, and the parent (or child) explained its significance.
"These simple tin candlesticks came with my grandmother when she fled Galicia for Vienna right after the first World War," explained Liora's mother, " In 1939, when my mother fled to England, she was unable to take anything valuable out of the country, and so she took with her these candlesticks as a memory of her home and her Jewish roots.
"When she and my father moved to Canada after World War II, these candlesticks had become our family's most cherished heirloom. When I came on Aliyah almost thirty years ago, my mother gave me these candlesticks, saying to me ' Let them come home with you.' "
Amit was next, "This Hamsa has been reputed to have been in our family in Morocco for 22 generations (i.e. since the Expulsion from Spain). When my grandparents made the difficult journey to Eretz Yisrael it was only natural that they should bring it along, and it hangs in a prominent place in our house in Musrara ever since."
"This Haggadah was printed in Bagdad in 1896," said Ofrah, the class teacher, " See how it was repaired with simple newsprint, such was the poverty of those days! When my grandfather was thrown into jail for Zionist activity, he took this Haggada along. He handed it down to my late father as a precious link between the kisuffim (yearnings) in the Diaspora for Zion, and our life in Israel. For years, even when we were inundated with beautiful, richly illustrated Haggadot, my father insisted on using this one for the Seder: 'So that we remember where we came from, and why we're here,' he used to say. "
Next to come out of the suitcase is a small, vinyl-bound Siddur. " My grandfather asked me to buy myself a siddur before I went off to milu'im (reserve duty) in Lebanon in the early '80's , " said Dani's father. " Saba said that in his father's house in Poland, no Jewish adult would ever leave home without a siddur: Because he got out of Europe by the skin of his teeth, there was no family siddur that he could give me," he explained.
" During those Milu'im, with this siddur in my pocket, I had a very close scrape with death, and suddenly I saw the connection between my family here and there, Jewish tradition, and what we are doing in our Return to the Land. This siddur has never left my side since."
"Three photos," announced Michal's mother," This is me as a little girl in Romania with my mother and father. See how serious and mesoodar {orderly} we look. And here is me with my friends in Israel, in our Ma'abara {temporary shacks for olim in the fifties}.How relaxed I look, and how happy, even though we had practically nothing. And here is a picture of one of Michal's birthday parties. How similar she looks to the picture of me as a child , and yet how different!"
"Here's me," announced Aviva's father, " I'm 3 years old, and I'm holding the New York newspaper announcing the vote in the U.N. in 1948. When I came on Aliyah 25 years later, I had the exhilirating feeling that I had closed a circle ."
"My grandmother was a halutza from Germany, the oldest daughter, " said Re'ut's mother, " When she left her home in the '30s she refused to take anything with her from the Old Country . Her mother gave her this necklace, as a present 'for being born anew in Israel'. Bubbe gave my mother this necklace when she gave birth to me, and I will give this necklace to Re'ut when she gives birth to her oldest daughter!"
And so it continued: each family and its special link back into the past.
And the tattered suitcase from which all these items had been taken?
"When we got permission to leave Russia, we had no money to spare on fancy luggage," said Ilana's father, " When we got here, we thought we'd just throw it out. But we decided to keep it to remind the kids and ourselves from where we came from, and why we're happy to be home.."
"Each child reclaimed his family heirloom with reverence," notes Rubin. "For many, it had been the first time that they had heard its story. And everyone in that class knew that something deep had happened in the Hevruta of that morning: Through the simple yet powerful modality of family memorabilia we were reminded of the vital link between the Tekuma (rebirth of Israel) and between the Homecoming of each and every Jewish family living here, of the personal Zionist imperative that grandparents, and their grandparents have passed on to us from unmarked graves."
"From homes throughout Israel, from the mantle-pieces and the living room shelves come the heirlooms and the stories. And, perhaps even more poignantly, from the boidems and intersols, where after years of neglect, these items are being brought back , because of this program, into the Narrative of the family, and its connection to the Land.
"The post-Zionist debunkers at home, and the prophets of gloom and doom from abroad think that they can understand the Israeli soul by reading our newspapers. But if they haven't attended a Yom Mishpacha recently, then they will never be aware of the ongoing depth and quiet tenacity of our individual and familial commitment to a Homeland that is also a yearned-for home."
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PERSONALIZED POSTAGE STAMP - TO ORDER
INTERNATIONAL STAMP FAIR - "JERUSALEM 2001"
The dream of many will soon become real, when their portrait will appear on an official postage stamp. The international stamp fair - Jerusalem 2001 - due to take place at Jerusalem's International Convention Center on March 18-22, 2001, is organized by the Israel Philatelic Association together with the Postal Service Philatelic Service. Each visitor will have the opportunity of being photographed and will receive a sheet of stamps with pictures of flowers, and his/her own photograph beside the stamp. The personalized stamp will be sold at the Postal Service stand at the fair as a sheet of 16 stamps for NIS 35 .
Some 500 display cases, exhibiting rare stamps and special items is reawakening the curiosity of new and veteran collectors. The Jerusalem 2001 fair will exhibit a wide range of stamps and valuable postal items on different subjects, with exhibitors from Italy, Germany, Argentina, Spain and Israel, including collectors connected with Eretz Israel, Judaica and other religious subjects.
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GAZPACHO
This is a well-known refreshing soup, particularly popular in Spain and Portugal
Ingredients :
1/2 kg. tomatoes
1 cucumber
2 green peppers, seeds removed
3 slices whole-wheat flour, crusts removed, or 3-4 tsp. ground almonds
1 small white onion or several green onions chopped finely
2 cloves garlic
4 tbsp. olive oil
3 tsp. wine vinegar
Salt & pepper to taste
3 tsp. tomato paste
1 tsp. onion powder, parsley, mint or marjoram chopped finely
1-2 cups water
Preparation :
Immerse tomatoes in boiling water and peel. Wash cucumber and peppers and chop coarsely.
Soak the bread in water and squeeze well (3-4 tablespoons of almonds will be a good substitute), place in food processor with the other ingredients.
Add cold water as necessary to create a smooth, light mixture and chill.
B'Te'avon! Bon Appetit!
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